Do they really care?
A lot of people (attorneys, mental health counselors, expert witnesses) will act like they care about your case.
Unfortunately, during my cynical days, I question whether everybody actually cares as much as they act. Go with your gut instinct and if you do not think anybody you are paying to help you with your divorce or other marital-related issue actually truly cares about you, FIRE them immediately as your gut instinct is often correct.
Remember, your attorney and any expert you hired works for you and you can fire them anytime you want too! Namaste.