Wake up call

I am involved in a case where the former wife is dating her attorney. I represent the former husband. She has two (2) children. She acts like she is concerned about the welfare of her children and that she cares about how the children get along with her former husband, their father.

She is a fraud and a fake. If she actually has the presence of mind to consider how the children felt about her boyfriend being in a legally adverse relationship with their father, she might conclude that just the perception to the children will emotionally harm them for the rest of thier lives.

Unfortunately, this person is so concerned about her alimony check and is so lazy, she will do anything to avoid working, with little regard to how she is damaging her children by dating her attorney.

I wonder how she avoids actually considering the harm of her actions. She does not realize it, but I could see how it was affecting her physically, as everytime I see her at a court hearing or deposition or mediation or otherwise, her physical body is deteroriating from her life condition of avoidance and being lazy.

It is probable that by actually getting a job and becoming productive and being able to hire and pay an attorney to represent her, other than having to date one, would be far less harmful to your children.