Wake up. You husband is a scumbag.

If your Husband was a Scumbag before your marriage (you know the truth; please do not assume to be so lonely that you ignore the truth), he will be a Scumbag during your marriage and you can watch it multiply during your divorce.

No, he (the pre-husband Scumbag) does not love you. He wants sex or money. Look deep into his vacant, souless eyes and you will see. Odds are he has been married before you came along, he had a nasty divorce (which he blames on his former Wife) and Yes, you married the same Scumbag. His true colors will show soon enough.

When interviewing a prospective attorney, ask them: DO YOU KNOW HOW TO EFFECTIVELY DEAL WITH A MALE SCUMBAG?

If your prospective attorney laughs or changes the subject, then they are denying what is real for you. You can save yourself some pain and heartache at this point if you choose not to give this prospective attorney the opportunity to represent you.

Guess what—that attorney just wants your money too!

Holy Shit. You have managed to have contact with your second certifiable Scumbag. Find somebody that understands and can communicate with you and will fight for you for what's right, especially if yours is the side with principle.

Personally, I become energized by people with principles. Lets go kick some butt and accomplish reasonable goals.

And for you non-Scumbag men, we will chat soon about the scumbag Wife!