Love to Hate

SUNDAY, JUNE 28, 2009

Often, when in a consultation with a potential client who has come in seeking education about a divorce, I will look at them and try to imagine their wedding, the rehearsal dinner, etc. I never ask about it, (well maybe sometimes when I draw a complete blank, but that is not often) as i wonder how two humans can go from a state of Love to Hate. I can answer the question. It is because one of the spouses love was "self love" versus "unconditional love." Anything solely about the self is a cancer, waiting to ravish its host body.

........"oh your spouse did that".......